Am I Healed Enough For Another Relationship?

Just because you have a boyfriend doesn’t mean your self esteem magically shoots up. Things you picked up in your childhood, your trauma, subconscious thought patterns, negativity and pain… it all stays. The emotional baggage that comes with dating the wrong people in the past… feelings of worthlessness, loneliness, none of that is magically going to go away when you step into a relationship. In fact, it will keep popping its ugly head up throughout the relationship & cause further problems. This isn't woo woo stuff. God made our minds beautiful with powerful retention abilities. As a child, you have been carrying emotions and experiences from day one of your life, and not all of them are roses and sunshine. We repeat what we don't repair. When we haven't had time or the opportunity to process, surrender, forgive and heal old wounds, they will surf over and over. Relationships are a mirror to the deepest parts of you. If you want a good man with healthy relationship patterns to walk in and wife you up, you need to have your side of the street clear.