I think there are both sides to this story. On one hand, yes, a lot of “trad influencers” probably are like this. (Not all obviously) But it’s unreasonable to then project it on all women.
The irony is, that men always comment these things in response to posts by said “influencers”.
But if that’s how you feel about them, then why are you so upset? It’s not as though you want to be with them yourself?
That said once again I also see the other side, which is perhaps they feel like these influencers will then influence the behaviour of everyday women.
In summary though, it’s my strong belief that there are good women out there. They’re just not often the ones you see online.